Virgil Officer Counselling Service

Counselling & Psychotherapy in Hertfordshire & Online

Healing begins with understanding


Growth flourishes with guidance

Welcome to Virgil Officer Counselling Service

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Welcome

Prior to becoming a qualified counsellor I worked in education for 12 years in teaching and management roles.


I took my first steps into counselling in 2017 and I am now, a qualified Person-centred counsellor with an in-depth understanding of Psychodynamic theories and practices. I am fully insured and Being a black male counsellor has allowed me the opportunity to gain experience engaging with a diverse range of cultures and social groups. I am registered member of BACP, I received my BA Hons in Counselling from Middlesex University.

Entering counselling can feel daunting and bring anxiety, but you don’t have to face it alone. I am here to support you every step of the way on your journey.


I engage with individuals from various backgrounds, cultures and life experiences, each bringing a unique set of challenges to address. This includes working with young people in education and in the counselling setting.

As a fully-qualified and insured counsellor I am a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy, and abide by their code of ethics.

My approach

Understanding the meaning we give to life-events can be difficult and at times may leave us with the feeling of uncertainty, rejection, anxiety and depression. This can be draining, mentally and emotionally, while trying to juggle our everyday lives. There could be aspects of these internal and external challenges we are looking to overcome but it can seem overwhelming knowing where to start.

A safe, confidential space

As a counsellor my aim is to create a safe, confidential space where exploration of thoughts, feelings, and experiences can take place. We will progress at a pace which feels comfortable to you and without the weight of expectation or the feeling of being judged. I believe my role as a counsellor is to facilitate and support the growth of the client, and to aid the client to develop the skills and strategies to reach their full potential.

What issues can counselling help with?

People have come to counselling seeking support with a variety of issues. Here are a few of the more common difficulties that can be supported through counselling:

  • Self-esteem & self-acceptance
  • Anxiety and depression
  • Relationships and attachment
  • Work and social difficulties
  • Cultural differences
  • Life Transitions & identity issues
  • Behavioural & coping mechanisms
  • Childhood trauma & unresolved past experiences
  • Grief, loss or bereavement

My location

I offer face-to-face sessions in 32 Holywell Hill, St Albans, Hertfordshire, AL1 1BZ within easy reach of the North London area.


In addition to providing face-to-face therapy, I also offer online and telephone sessions for clients throughout the UK.

Fees & availability

I recommend we start with an initial 30 mins assessment call to assess my suitability as your potential counsellor, and for you to ask any questions you may have (free of charge).


My fees are £60 per 50mins

(please contact me to discuss concessionary rates)


Prior to booking in an initial consultation if you have any queries or questions please do not hesitate to contact me either by email or phone where I will be happy to discuss in further detail.

"Seeking counselling was one of the most important decisions I’ve ever made. At first, I was hesitant, unsure if talking about my feelings would really help. But from the very first session, I felt truly heard and supported. Virgil created a safe, non-judgmental space where I could explore my thoughts and emotions openly. Over time, I gained a deeper understanding of myself, developed healthier coping strategies, and started feeling more confident and in control of my life. I'm incredibly grateful for this journey and would recommend counselling to anyone feeling overwhelmed or stuck—it truly changed my life."

Anonymous Client

"After losing my father unexpectedly, I felt completely lost—in sorrow and confusion. Reaching out for grief counselling was one of the hardest but best decisions I’ve made. Virgil created a space where I could speak freely without judgment and helped me understand that grief doesn’t follow a timeline. Week by week, I began to find small moments of peace, and eventually, ways to remember my dad with more love than pain. Counselling didn’t erase the loss, but it helped me carry it with strength and grace. I’m deeply grateful for the support that guided me through one of the most difficult periods of my life."

Anonymous Client

"When I first started counselling, I struggled deeply with self-doubt and low self-esteem. I constantly questioned my abilities and avoided opportunities out of fear of failure. But through regular sessions and supportive guidance, I began to uncover the root causes of my insecurities. Virgil provided a safe space to explore my thoughts and challenge the negative beliefs I held about myself. We worked on setting small, achievable goals, and every success—no matter how minor—helped rebuild my confidence. Over time, I began to trust my judgment, speak up more, and embrace new challenges with courage."

Sarah L., 29

"I am deeply grateful for the counselling support I received during a very challenging time with my family. The sessions provided me with a safe and non-judgmental space to openly express my feelings and concerns. Through thoughtful guidance and practical strategies, I was able to gain a clearer understanding of the underlying issues affecting our relationships. Virgil helped me develop healthier communication skills and coping mechanisms, which have significantly improved the dynamics within my family. I feel more empowered, heard, and connected to my loved ones now. This experience has truly been transformative, and I highly recommend counselling to anyone facing family challenges."

Anonymous Client

Get in touch

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling works, or to arrange a free 30 minute assessment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.


You can also call me on 07949 008859 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.


All enquiries are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.

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